There are lots of mistakes I made when I was trying to get my ex boyfriend back. I was clingy, desperate, and I thought that if I could just get through to him that somehow that would make everything better.
Boy did I have it wrong! But here are 3 thing you really should do if you want to have a good chance at winning him back.
Pay attention to this because it works!
Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back with No Contact
This is going to excruciatingly painful and hard for you to do, but you have to understand that he broke up with you because he wants space from the relationship.
If you really love him, honor that and back off for awhile (usually 2-4 weeks works best).
Now your first instinct when you get dumped is to try and work things out by talking to him or calling him on the phone.
You’ll have to fight this urge back. It almost certainly won’t be easy on you, but just commit to not contacting him for a few weeks and stick to it.
Who knows, he might start to miss you and reach out to you first.
Embrace the Single Life and Get Him Back
Okay, so you’re not contacting him. Now you have all this extra time on your hands. What do you do with it?
Enjoy it!
Take some classes, make some friends, or spend time with the friends you already have. Just do anything but sit at home feeling sad and depressed.
Your boyfriend fell in love with you in the first place because you were a happy and interesting woman, not because you were depressed and unmotivated.
If you want him to fall in love with you again, you need to become the woman that he fell in love with in the first place.
Reawaken all those passions and hobbies that you used to have and find joy in your life that isn’t dependent on whether you’re dating someone or not.
Take It Slow and Get Back Together
After your “no contact” period is over, you should be a fresh and exciting new person that is fun to be around.
Maybe he contacted you, maybe you contacted him, but at some point one of you will reach out to “catch up.”
Suggest that the two of you meet for coffee to see how you’re doing (or think up some other things to do with your ex boyfriend).
When the two of you meet, you should act cool and relaxed. You don’t want to seem too eager to see him again.
Just keep the conversation light and playful. It’s okay to flirt with him, but don’t talk about serious topics like your relationship or getting back together unless he mentions them first.
Don’t hang out for too long. Maybe only 30 minutes or an hour. Then tell him that you need to be somewhere and have to leave.
If the two of you have been having fun, this will really frustrate him. Keep him wanting more. Ask him to call you in a few days and maybe the two of you can go out a second time.
Keep seeing him casually for awhile. If things continue to go well for a few weeks and it feels right, go ahead and tell him that the two of you seem to be doing better and that maybe the two of you should give the relationship a second try.
This is what I did to get my ex boyfriend back and it’s what I recommend you do as well.
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