It can be really frustrating after a breakup to feel just like you’re making progress, moving on with your life, and getting over your boyfriend…
…But then he calls again.
Why is he doing this? Does he still like you? Does he miss you? Does he want to get back together?
Here I’ll be talking about a few signs he wants you back because I know how difficult it can be to turn your brain in knots trying to read between the lines and figure out all this stuff yourself.
(Also, you might want to check out this previous article on signs your ex wants you back)
Here are some signs he wants you back
1 – He Keeps in Contact with You
This is a big sign he wants you back, otherwise, he wouldn’t be putting in the effort to try to keep in touch with you. Even if it’s something as small as sending a text message to you.
You know that he still has some strong feelings for you if he gets bent out of shape when you don’t call him back or reply to his emails or text messages right away. Even if he misses you when the two of you don’t talk for a few days at a time.
2 – He Still Has Feelings (of Any Kind)
If your ex boyfriend still has any feelings about you at all, then there’s a very good chance that he still is hung up or hasn’t gotten over the relationship just yet.
Yes, I mean ANY feelings. Even if he says that he hates you or he just seems angry or mean around you.
You see, if he still has emotions of any kind, it still means that he cares. Otherwise, he just wouldn’t be able to find the effort to become angry. His emotions just prove that he still cares.
3 – Sometimes He’s Hot / Sometimes He’s Cold
If your ex boyfriend seems to want to be around you one minute, maybe he wants to “stay friends” or whatever. But then he just seems distant and cold the next, this is another of the big signs he wants you back.
You see what’s happening here is that he feels very conflicted and hasn’t really decided how he feels about you or having a relationship with you just yet.
This can cause a lot of drama for you, but just rest assured that he still does care.
4 – He Seems a Bit More Competitive
Maybe he’s trying to show you just how happy and great his life is after the breakup; maybe he’s trying to start a new relationship before you.
Either way, he’s feeling very competitive these days.
What this means is that he’s trying to convince himself that he made the right choice in breaking up with you.
Sure, it might seem mean to do this, but chances are he is still conflicted himself and just wants to cement the idea in his own mind that he made the right choice.
It can be really difficult to deal with some of these emotional things right now (especially all those difficult emotions of heartbreak). His high-drama actions can really make you feel hurt during this challenging emotional time for you, but just remember that these are all signs that he still cares.
He wouldn’t be doing these kinds of things if he had moved on or if he didn’t care about you anymore.
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